Welcome — Start Here
The person you text before you make the decision you'll replay for days.
Hey Text Me First is thoughtful peer support for the drafted messages, unsent apologies, and quiet 2 a.m. conversations — a place to think before you act.
Read by one real person. Usually within 24 hours on weekdays.
What this is
Honest peer support, message rewrites, and thinking-time before you send. Not therapy or crisis care.
Who it's for
Anyone with a paragraph sitting in their notes app they cannot decide whether to send.
Notes — 2:14 AM
"I've been meaning to say this for a while and I'm not sure how to start, but—"
Draft · unfinished
Where to begin
Three doors. Pick the one that fits tonight.
01 — Rewrite
The Draft Box
Hand over the message you've rewritten ten times. We'll slow it down together.
02 — Release
The Unsent Folder
For the words that need to leave your head, even if they never leave your phone.
03 — Sit with it
Ways to Work Together
Longer conversations for the situations a single text cannot untangle.
Newsletter
Before You Hit Send
One thoughtful email every Sunday. Honest perspective. Gentle reminders. Communication tips. No spam.
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